Strengths as a Couple
The dual Aquarius partnership is one predicated on accentuating the true positive sides of the Aquarius, and thereby the whole of humanity. Aquariuses are generous souls with a lot of love to give and are always willing to lend a hand whenever and wherever they can. Being Fixed Air signs makes this endeavor surprisingly easy, as they can learn from others and adapt from their strategies as to people the best that they can.
They can do that without losing sight of themselves or what they feel is important to who they are as a person, which is a key skill that most instructors are envious of. This makes them excellent teachers to each other in many ways, as they can explain and understand their worldviews to one another in a way that is easy to digest for one another.
The double Fixed Air relationship is one where very few interpersonal conflicts exist between the two lovers. They are after all rather cosmopolitan and fiercely independent individuals who can carve out a slice of the world for themselves, by themselves, for their own sake. This by no means makes the Aquariuses dull people with little emotion, quite the opposite in fact; they are extremely dedicated and borderline fanatical to the causes they support and the movements they champion. They are pioneers with expanding their horizons and pushing the envelope when it comes to expression and ideals. This extends to their romantic ventures too, as there are rarely if ever any real dull moments between these two.
One of their most subtle strengths is the power of their visionary outlook on the whole world and their capacity to act on these visions and thereby bringing them to life. As the old saying goes, two heads are better than one, and that’s very much the case here. They can utilize each other as springboards for new ideas, litmus tests for theories, and co-designers for whatever mad schemes they’ve come up with for the moment. Rarely will one see any couple more ambitious, and capable of acting upon those ambitions, as the dual Aquarius couple.
Weaknesses as a Couple
Two visionaries are what you get with the Aquarius partnership and while yes, they can project and show you the wonders of humanity, they are just as capable of showing you humanity at its worst. Humanity’s self-destructive tendencies are on display when they try their best to save others but forget to save themselves, overworking and overachieving is a signature calling card of the Aquarius while they’re alone, but with a partner this is only worsened, as the most reliable person they have present is not seeing reason, but cheering them on. They may have their convictions as well, but sometimes when they teach their biases will still seep through the cracks, not ideal for any form of tutor or educator.
Fixed Air redoubled has very little in the way of interpersonal conflict with one another, however, this also means that there’s very little passion or drive shared between these two would-be Aquarius lovers. In fact, their independent spirit pretty much kills any chance they have at getting well and truly intimate with one another.
This aloofness is part of who they are, yes, and it’s useful to them since they both think and feel the same way about their actions or rather their inaction towards each other, but for fostering a caring relationship, this is a big detriment. Therefore, their expressiveness and creativity kind of ring hollow, as while it may have passion, it ends up serving little purpose for their romantic life.
One last source of difficulty for these two is most certainly their very nature. As Aquarius is the Fixed Air sign, it may be easy for them to continue someone’s work or take an existing work towards new and interesting directions, but they struggle in getting anything started on their own. Not helped by the fact that they’re two members of the same sign, so they may stare at a canvas together for many hours and never see anything wrong whereas a Scorpio or Aries could point the flaws of their work within seconds.
Compatibility
Romance
Romance and sex is an area of good compatibility for a pair of Gemini. A dual Aquarius partnership can be a fascinating thing to watch. It’s a relationship whose primary attributes include its proclivity for experimentation, and a whole lot of excitement. They find great fulfillment and comfort in each others’ company and the nature of their dual Fixed Air sign status allows them great freedom to express and discuss certain matters too sensitive for any other partner.
They find some issues when it comes to finding a connection however as their Air element gives them a tendency to be distant and casual in their relationships with others which then, unfortunately, translates to difficulty in emotional and communicative intimacy with their partners, even those they would find extremely comfortable to confront. This will mean that there are many points in their relationship where they feel as though their partner is not fulfilling the roles they should serve and as such inadequacies can spring up.
Still, if there are problems within their relationship that have to be solved immediately to prevent its collapse, no signs can better find it than a dual Aquarius relationship. It is unfortunate, then, that unless a concerted amount of effort is exerted by both parties to overcome their personal deficiencies, this couple’s Romantic life can fizzle out very quickly.
Activities
Aquariuses are known for being selfish, not to the degree of some of the more infamous members of the wheel like say Leo or a particularly spiteful Taurus, but it’s there. Oddly, this doesn’t manifest when they’re in a partnership with another Aquarius. Instead, they become quite accommodating and frankly welcoming personalities that like to work together.
It’s one of the most oddly comforting manifestations of the dual Fixed Air couple’s love. Being able to do things together with very little fuss with much enthusiasm.
Communication
In terms of communication and capacity for the conveyance of ideas, the dual Fixed Air couple of double Aquarius is one of, if not the best ones out there. Think of Aquarius and their ability to communicate as being a manifestation of some sort of higher being and an idealization of the sort of virtues we all look for when we have a partner who wants to talk and communicate with us.
Don’t be surprised if there are just some things that make complete sense to the two Aquariuses that would just go over your head. Whatever form of their relationship maybe, when they speak it’ll be like some form of ancient magic has just been invoked and some mystical airs have been summoned.
Despite their amazing positives, there are a few notable downsides for the dual Aquarius couple. Chief among them of course is the self-esteem issues that they face with one another. Both of them are governed by the Sun and as they’re in such close contact with one another nearly everyday, their radiance can become a rather toxic influence on each other.
While they play nice when they agree (which they usually do), things can get uncharacteristically vicious if they don’t. They think and process their feelings and thoughts very quickly and often let go without fully examining them and their other meanings, so it’ll be an uphill battle if conflict arises. The best they can do is to take a moment to slow own, breathe, and take stock of why this conversation or the other has made them so suddenly angry.
Values
Much depends on where one was born and raised for a lot of things. Preferences, underlying philosophies, true beliefs, that sort of thing, but usually speaking when two individuals come together there’s usually a good reason for that in that they were drawn to each other’s similarities.
The values of the twin Aquarius couple are no exception to that rule but it’s interesting how they manifest themselves. They are cultural rebels that go against the grain of where they were raised, if so, an Aquarius raised by a more traditional family will be a stereotypically puckish rogue and rebel, while those raised in more lax households will become oddly conservative.
Thankfully despite their differences, when two Aquariuses come together there is enough mutual respect for one another to not disregard each other for their beliefs, and instead, find a newfound unity in the fact that the root of their different forms of rebellion are one and the same.
Emotions
Generally speaking, Geminis avoids emotion since they naturally favor The Fixed Air sign alone isn’t a very emotional creature. Their emotions are like wind itself; always changing and hard to define since its always in flux. This can be a good thing if you’re just trying to live life from one emotion to the next, but if you need some form of intimacy such fickle emotions can be a detriment. Such is the case for the dual Aquarius couple as their love isn’t really strongly expressed in emotions, and if that isn’t clearly explained by either member of the couple to just be a function of their own minds instead of a conscious effort to blot out all forms of emotional connection with one another it can very easily and very quickly sour the relationship.
That is if they even fall in love which is a challenge unto itself. They’re fixed signs after all, and change such as those brought about by romantic feelings isn’t always the most welcome development in their lives. Still if they can somehow overcome this, they will be blessed by a beautiful relationship that is founded on something solid, just one that will not carry a lot of emotional weight in most settings; for better or worse
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Healing Crystals for Aquarius and Aquarius
Rose Quartz
One problem with this pairing is their tendency to suppress their own emotions. Not showing how they feel to the other, they tend to downplay their inner self. Thinking that everything can be resolved by logic and reason, the relationship easily becomes so mechanical and methodic.
With that, they will need a healing crystal that will encourage them to be true to their emotions. As such, Rose Quartz is a perfect partner for this journey. Empowering couples and giving them that push in order to become better, this healing crystal will ensure that they are on the right track. By amplifying those feelings toward commitment and purpose, these two signs will have a reason to stay with each other.
Ruby
While this pair will be able to keep their relationship growing (at least on paper), it will dawn upon them that indeed they need something to inspire romance and sex. Both being too rational and objective, they might find this area of their relationship as tricky. Thus, they will need a gemstone that will empower their romantic pursuits.
As a healing crystal, Ruby is known to be the best solution for an incompatible sex life. With both partners shying from each other in bed, it is difficult to build an intuitive connection between couples. This often leads to unaddressed conflict that subtly damages the relationship.
But with the help of Ruby, such qualms will be addressed. Revitalizing its user’s sexual desire, this crystal can work wonders in a relationship that’s seemingly going nowhere. Carrying that universal message of love and sexuality, this crystal will work wonders. Surprised, both partners will feel revitalized and attracted to each other.
Amethyst
Perhaps the ultimate healing crystal to invoke spiritual growth, Amethyst is a perfect companion for the two. As they are, a pair of Aquarius is naturally attracted to concepts and ideas. With that, they love the scholarly task of grappling with these ideas.
However, Aquarius does have the tendency to be stuck with logic and reason. Since they don’t want to discuss the beyond and the unknown, their perspectives in life can also be, in a way, limited.
As such, Amethyst is the perfect healing crystal to bring some sort of higher dimension for their relationship. By letting them see new ways of doing things, it becomes easier for them to find meaning and purpose, instead of being stuck in their own views of the world.
In the same way, this will also expand their knowledge. Since Amethyst can become a good catalyst for new perspectives in life, it will improve not only their personal views but also their relationship as a couple.
