Strengths as a Couple
Scorpio is Fixed Water. It mostly stays unchanging and unmoved by the movements of the world and remains as deep and mysterious as the furthest depths of the deepest oceans. Water that sustains all life. Water that can just as easily wash it all away.
Leo is Fixed Fire. It burns bright and true like the rays of the Golden Sun, of which it is partly based around. Its luminosity is revealing and unconquerable, shining ever so bright and ever so splendidly. It shines upon the world and makes the crops grow, and parches the land and dries all foolish enough to stand before it.
Together they can stand as one of the most passionate and energetic pairs in the Great Wheel. This energy easily translates into a passionate love life filled with adventure, adoration, and intimate moments that can never be erased.
And their combined ambition and willingness for both extravagance and glory make them quite supportive of one another when pursuing such endeavors. These two are ambitious Fire and Water signs, and their combined strength poses.
Weaknesses as a Couple
Scorpio and Leo are one of the most volatile pairings in the entirety of the Great Wheel of the Zodiac. They are practically anathema to one another in terms of personality, traits, elements, and dispositions.
It takes no genius to figure out that fire and water combined turn to steam and effectively cancel each other out. Leo and Scorpio's relationship will, in no uncertain terms, be equally as explosive and equally as volatile, to the point where they may actually become a literal danger to one another.
Leo’s inescapable light does not mesh well with Scorpio’s secrecy. They will poke and prod and abuse Scorpio, while at the same time be chaffed at the lack of transparency from their partner. This will very quickly turn into a point of constant contention between the two.
Their flareups will be far more intense than their contemporaries, be it because of their beliefs or just the passion that they share. Leo being a Fire sign will opt for all things that promote freedom and passion, and all that comes with it. Scorpio being a Fixed Water sign of all things, will require some Order and Routine.
Compatibility
Romance
Romance is going to be a straight-up struggle for the Fixed Fire and Water signs just by sheer personality alone.
Leo is one that does not mince words and wants things to be as clear-cut as possible. They’re frank, forward, and can sometimes come off as more than a little forceful to most of the signs, chief among which is Scorpio.
Scorpio meanwhile likes having an air of mystery about them. They’re honest, even passionate, but they’re not one to surrender every secret in their repertoire all at once. That takes the fun away from them and being open with someone that much that early is an unnatural state of being for them.
Because of this massive disconnect for the pair, forming a close, intimate relationship is an exceedingly difficult task. Not impossible mind, just one fraught with anger and frustration that will take a concerted effort for both parties to overcome.
Activities
The way that Leo and Scorpio organize themselves individually and as a couple for an event is interesting. They’ll rarely find anything to bond over simply because their ruling planets dictate their interests be as far apart as they can possibly be.
If they can organize something together, however, they'll cooperate well enough. Fixed Water Scorpio is, after all, ruled by Mars, a planet that is actually quite comprehensible to the Fixed Fire Leo. They’ll usually have the energy to spare to enjoy themselves in such situations.
The aftermath may result in some fallout, however, as Leo and Scorpio will try to build up and break down the best and worst aspects of what they experienced in the activity. This may cause tension between the pair, and can sour the afterglow of a win as the two will be at each others’ throats.
The best they can hope for is to be honest and fair with each other and relay their thoughts in as clear as they can with as few hurtful words as they can possibly use.
Communication
The two signs can play civil with each other, it has to be said. Scorpio is one to watch and listen to their peers, while Leo has an ability to turn anything they participate in as a display or gesture like a Gorilla thumping at its chest or (appropriately enough), Lion's roar. They can maintain appearances long enough to be amicable.
It's these tendencies, however, that also poses a challenge for the pair when it comes to actually converse with one another and sharing ideas. Leo is bluster and shows and quite insightful, but the way the Fixed Fire Leo presents itself to the world while endearing for most of the personalities it will encounter across its journey, will not mesh well with Scorpio.
Scorpio meanwhile being as observant as they are will see through most of Leo’s ruses, cut through the chaff to get to the wheat, and see Leo for what they truly are. If Scorpio finds it worthwhile to engage with, they may stay and converse. Otherwise, the line will be cut as fast as humanly possible.
Values
The Fixed Fire and Water pair will find that they both agree on honesty and transparency in almost every situation under the Sun.
Leo needs this because it helps them in the maintenance of their masquerade; true information to use as an anchor for all the interactions and decisions they make while they go about their ever-busy life.
Scorpio values this as to hide their intentions and maintain an air of mystery about them. They like keeping secrets now and again, mostly just because having something dear to their heart close to their heart gives them immense comfort.
The devil, however, is in the details, and these two will often struggle with how they acquire and utilize whatever wisdom they’ve gathered in a meaningful and positive manner.
It’s a fight between the maintenance of balance and order versus the destruction of values that no longer hold any meaning in life beyond what is seen. This will be a focal point of the ire and passion that these two will share and is such a common origin for bouts between the pair that it will quickly become exhausting.
Emotions
This is the most challenging relationship in the entirety of the Zodiac’s great wheel of life. Emotionally speaking, Fixed Fire Leo and Fixed Water Scorpio have it in for each other harder than any other pairing.
Emotions run on the extremes simply because of the celestial bodies that govern these two that give them so much pride and passion and energy. Again, like Fire and Water, they cancel each other out in spectacular fashion, translating into apocalyptic skirmishes between these two when things get heated.
It’s also part of their own programming. It’s been said that Scorpio clings to the negatives as it is only through said negatives that the true meaning of positivity may lie.
Leo meanwhile is stubborn and bullheaded more than a little egotistical about certain things. Even if their partner will clearly express their distaste and general dissatisfaction with the proceedings, fully expect them to not only remain at odds but stick to that position vehemently.
It’s hard for these two to get along emotionally as their relationship will quickly spiral into a cycle of suffering for both. It may be alleviated somewhat if they maintain some independence from one another, but otherwise expect this to go down in flames.
Healing Crystals for Aries x Aries
Pink Calcite
Obviously, one problem this pairing has is that both of them are very passionate lovers but view such in a different way. What is sexual and intimate are inversely correlated, making their desires clash with each other.
Thus, given how these two signs are essentially different and even incompatible, at least to a certain extent, it is imperative for them to select a healing crystal that brings emotional acceptance and love to each other.
With that, Pink Calcite is the perfect healing crystal to keep things rolling. As a pink gemstone, it naturally caries the power of love and romance which is necessary to keep polar signs from breaking apart.
On top of that, its unique niche lies in its ability to lead its users towards emotional acceptance. In this way, all objections that this couple may have against each other will eventually be washed away as they move forward.
Jade
In assessing both signs, it wouldn’t take a genius to figure out that one possible conflict is their dominant nature. On the one hand, Leo is known to be the most dominant among zodiac signs, whereas Scorpio is known to be very subjective and personal, to say the least.
Given such, one problem related to their common weakness is when one tends to overpower the other. With the failure to balance their own energies, these two signs will tend to battle it out and hamper each other’s positive points. Thus, they will need a gemstone that can help them weigh things out properly.
As a green healing crystal, this one brings balance to the user. Generally used as a bodily or household ornament, a Jadestone will ensure that you are taking into account a more evened-out approach in life.
With that, having a Jade bracelet is often the best way to do it. Apart from imparting its own low-frequency energies, a couple bracelet with a Jadestone will constantly remind the other person about the unique bond of partnership and cooperation that they share with each other.
Malachite
Lastly, one issue with Scorpio and Leo is failure to properly express their emotions to each other. Overpowering the other, their emotions will clash to the extent that they'd rather not expose it. With that, they will need something to help manage this department.
Known as a stone of balance and transformation, Malachite does extremely well in helping us handle our emotions. Absorbing energy and drawing out emotions to the surface, it exposes the real us in a way that’s not encroaching.
Such is especially helpful for couples that are seeking balance and expression, something that this green healing crystal can strongly contribute to.
