Strengths as a Couple
Even-tempered and very thoughtful, the Pisces and Libra union is one destined for greatness among the couples of the Zodiac. They possess what all good couples should have; a balancing factor - by that we mean that their personalities are able to put their strengths forward and prop up each others’ weaknesses.
For example, the Water Sign Pisces has a bit of a reputation for loftiness and very often gets lost in their daydreams if left to their devices for far too long. Libra, appropriately enough can step in and give them a nice gentle push to having a more even-handed view of the world.
Meanwhile, the trouble with the Air Sign of Libra is that they’re often so busy with their work, or research, or whatever activity currently occupies their headspace to actually notice the world around them. Thankfully Pisces has a way with others, and because of their profound connection to life and their emotions, they’re able to coax some joy and wonder out of even the most jaded Libra. It’s a key skill that gives their partner pause and shows them the wonders of the world they share.
Finally, one drive that they share as a couple is the need to help others in life. Pisces’ connection to the water element makes them attuned to the emotions of the world. They sense the hardships of others so clearly, and this motivates them to help wherever they can. Meanwhile, Cardinal nature motivates them to act with compassion. As an air sign, they may not be as capable of seeing the attachments and relations that others might, but their detached perspectives allow them an impartial view on interpersonal issues that let them see solutions where others can only see conflict.
Weaknesses as a Couple
The Pisces and Libra union is plagued by one thing above all else: indecision. It has something to do with the composition of its two members. You see, Pisces is the Mutable Water element of the Zodiac, and their mutability makes them adaptable and flexible, however when it comes to holding their own or expressing an opinion, their whips can change at the drop of a hat. Meanwhile, the Libra is the Cardinal Air elemental. Their airy nature makes them aloof and detached, but also gives them an indecisive streak to match any mutable sign. It’s hard for them to make up their mind, and it is alarmingly easy to convince them otherwise.
There’s a lot of personal friction that has the possibility of boiling over for these two. Because, although they’re quite happy to live and let live and let bygones be bygones, both also possess a sense of justice that they want to eventually display toward their partner.
Pisces can sometimes be too emotional and irrational for the tastes of even the most patient Virgo lover. It is in their nature to be emotional and hard of commitment because of their status as the Mutable Water sign.
On the other hand, Libra because of their Cardinal of Air nature, will want peace, order, and balance, even if it comes at the cost of certain compromises that have to be brokered between them and their partner. The issue arises when Pisces fails to notice their Libra partner’s continued dissatisfaction, and from there, emotions may rise and proceeds may turn sour.
Compatibility
Romance
Romantically it seems that they have nothing to offer each other. However, there is a connection that both Pisces and Libra can look to ease their transition from strangers to lovers; it is the celestial body of Venus that rules Libra and is exalted by Pisces. This connection allows these two would-be lovers to look beyond their Mutable Water and Cardinal Air nature and find genuine warmth and kindness.
Where it’s won or lost for the Pisces and Libra romantic couple is what they can offer to one another as partners, and what they demand of each other. Libra wants someone strong, Passionate, and Confident in their romantic life. Pisces wants a gentle touch, compassion, and a sensitive touch for their feelings. If these can be met by either partner, they may go forward with confidence to live and grow a mature and fruitful love life in each others’ arms.
Activities
The Cardinal Air and Mutable Water signs are one of the worst couples to engage in organized, coordinated activities with one another. For a start, they have difficulty coming up with plans in the first place. Pisces’s adaptability has come at the cost of some of its decision-making ability. And because of how many variables Libra has to consider before coming to a choice, it will take them nearly as long to make their mind up on what to do as their partner.
It’s usually wisest to go with something that both members of the couple are happy to do on their own and wouldn’t mind doing together. But then another question comes up; do they even want to do anything together? Expect bickering and general discomfort when they do make the attempt, and not much progress to be made in any case.
Communication
Libra has issues. They are capable of logically figuring out why a person acts and thinks the way they do, but they have a hard time parsing through their head any form of true understanding. This will be a struggle for them, as Pisces in all their emotional glory will test their mettle to the limit with their baffling choices and illogical actions. It is partly down to their partner’s naivete and sense of wonder and due to their Water-related nature, but it will be a friction point for the couple.
They should otherwise be alright so long as they never attempt to impose on each other during their time together. Both are great communicators with empathy and logic at their disposal. It’s best that both partners employ these whenever they can and iron out issues before they boil over.
Values
Both the Mutable Water and Cardinal Air signs find their ability to relate and communicate with others as the single most important value that they possess both as individuals and as a couple.
As Venus plays a strong celestial role within their relationship, it is no surprise then that they value love and its expression just as highly as well. If they already have a mutual attraction, this need for love will help fuel their romance into the stars.
The main differences they possess will be based on their personalities. Libra is a creature of consistency and sustainability and will be generally the more conservatively minded of the pair.
Pisces is a bundle of energy and action that needs every opportunity it can come up with to find a release, so it will lean more towards progressive ideals.
This will undoubtedly lead to conflict for the couple in the future since these two ideas are contradictory and are founded upon ideals that do not agree. The couple must remember, then, that each part of the pair holds these values with their partner and their coupling in mind.
Emotions
Real love and true emotions are within reach for the Pisces and Libra pair since Venus rules over or otherwise influences their growth as individuals. The only caveat then, is that they have to get over each others’ egos to actually foster the love that they so desperately desire in their life, and that can be an overwhelming challenge even for an Air and Water sign couple.
If they can overcome this hurdle of egos and create boundaries that are clear and ever-present, then their emotional growth can really begin. Pisces brings the watery touch to overcome the cold nature of the Libra partner, while Libra can bring the reason to discern the finer points that their Water partner cannot decipher on their own.
Healing Crystals for Pisces and Libra
Citrine
Let’s face it, Libra and Pisces are at odds here. Their elemental nature doesn’t really come together. Whereas Libra is logical and rational, Pisces is intuitive and emotional. Thus, they’ll often find themselves in conflicting situations. In fact, even deciding what to do on a lazy day can quickly lead to a stalemate and end up in frustration and discontent.
Thus, what they need is a healing crystal that can empower them. With that, one of the best healing crystals that they can get is Citrine.
Primarily, Citrine is a healing crystal that can boost one’s positive energy. As such, it can inspire and bring couples to a new light, something that’s ultimately necessary if they are not getting along with each other. Forcing them to conquer their fears and challenges, Citrine will push them to evolve past their limits.
Also, due to its explosiveness, Citrine is known to supercharge us and even other healing crystals. Not only that, it also absorbs the energy from the Sun, making it almost a power bank of universal energy.
Turquoise
Of all the zodiac signs, Libra is known to be the best communicator. However, this fact doesn't necessarily apply to Pisces, who communicates in a more intuitive and spiritual way. Whereas Libra loves to discuss and articulate things, Pisces tends to feel it out and take their feelings into consideration.
With that, they will need a healing crystal that can bridge the gap between what they know and what they want to say. For this, Turquoise can be a great companion!
Also known as the stone of communication, Turquoise is a healing crystal that plays a vital role in helping couples express their thoughts in a proper way. When we communicate, it is obvious that what’s in our head will not always be relayed properly to the other person. But with the help of this healing crystal, such can be addressed.
Thus, by using this healing crystal as a bodily ornament, it will impart its positive energy. By wearing it as a necklace, this healing crystal will be brought closer to the throat chakra, allowing for better effectiveness!
Onyx
Lastly, the problem with Libra and Pisces is that they are often irritated by the smallest of conflicts that they can have. Although they can be a good Yin-Yang couple due to the fact that each other’s strength compensates for the other’s weakness, such can also go the other way around. Thus, when negative energies are prying around them, it can be difficult to say which is which.
With that, Onyx is definitely the perfect healing crystal for them. Known to be a powerful protection stone, Onyx wards off all the unwanted negative energies around us. Like an ancient totem that protects us from evil spirits, this healing crystal can block almost all sorts of negativity that can drain one’s personal energy.
On top of that, it also brings wise decision-making skills inner self-discipline. Aiding in the cultivation of positive skills from the inside, its two-pronged approach is perfect for a holistic kind of development.
