Your relationship is losing its most major battle, and it is at a pivotal point. Both you and your partner are at your wits’ end simply trying to maintain the relationship stable, either because one of you remains financially inept or worse, too emotionally immature to understand when to just help instead of argue.
This is the time when you and your partner should sit down and talk about whether continuing your relationship would still yield benefits or now. It will be a tough decision; emotions are fragile, and whatever you decide on, it will cause the two of you irreversible pain.
Because your inner demons are winning, you might already be seeing some telltale signs of your relationship being terminal and unable to continue further. This is sad, but you will have to brace yourself for the final blow and think about how to move on.
The least that you can do for one another is to have closure. It will allow the two of you to accept your separation with grace and ease the transition from having each other to becoming single once again. If you still believe in second chances, then you will find your way back to each other in the future- that is, if you already worked out your issues.
For those who are still waiting for the right person to love them, then you might have to keep on waiting for a bit longer. If you are patient enough, your heart will be significantly rewarded.