Currently, you could feel a little abandoned, because arrangements and friends seem to be more important to your partner than you are. That you might have one or two problems is more than understandable, but still, you shouldn't blame the problem entirely on your partner! You should better focus on finding a solution for both of you! Because the fact that love and routine don't always go hand in hand is not new. So don't ask yourself what you can do to counteract this indifference, but ask yourself what you are willing to do for this love!