The Four of Cups is a vivid manifestation of apathy, indifference and boredom. It signifies that you may have been living life in a standstill and there is difficulty in progressing and moving out from your safe zone.
Your existence in this world has become so monotonous and dull and there is dissatisfaction and frustration with what you possess right now. It urges you to disrupt the tedious cycle and set new goals.
In order to move forward, it is important to take risks and look for new and exciting paths. The card depicts a young man who is meditating and relaxing under a giant tree.
He seems to be isolating from the world, contemplating about his life and future at the top of the mountain. There are four golden cups found near him but his attention is centered at the three situated at his front.
He is too focused on looking at it that he neglects to see the beauty of the cup presented to him by a hand in the air. This symbolizes a person’s trait of dwelling too much on problems and disregarding the many blessings and graces he has received.
The Four of Cups in the upright position symbolizes an aversion to forming personal bonds and a general feeling of loneliness. In romance, this can be a particularly serious problem, as you are denied a wonderful experience twice: first by your fear of connection and second, by the sadness that eats away at you because of that fear.
At their very core, human beings are social and romantic creatures, which means your sadness may be instinctive, and that the best way to resolve it is to open up a bit more, especially if you’re already in a relationship.
In matters concerning financial growth, the upright position of this card symbolizes the problem of hesitation. Opportunity awaits you right now, and yet you can’t seem to find it in your heart to grasp it.
It could be that you’re actively doubting your capabilities or motives. It’s also possible that you’re being too cautious.
The sadness the man shows in the card is exactly the emotion that comes with too much caution, because you know that sometimes not taking any chances is worse for your finances instead of taking a calculated gamble.
The Four of Cups Card in Reverse is the opposite of the apathy and boredom that you have managed to surpass. It indicates your drive and motivation to conquer your fears and to start with a clean slate.
You are motivated to win life’s obstacles and you are determined to emerge victorious. You have taken the back the much-needed energy and enthusiasm to slay whatever is capturing you negatively.
You are very inspired to escape from your dull and restless life through pursuing your passion or whatever it is that keeps you alive.
This is one of the few instances where the reverse is actually a positive, because it means you’ve finally accepted your fears and are about to take the first step-- or that you should. Life and love are full of opportunities and possibilities for you to discover, and coming to terms with your own personal weaknesses is the first key to unlocking them.
You’re beginning to understand that your most painful heartbreaks and saddest days don’t define your romantic life, and that there’s someone out there just waiting for someone like you.
Having the Four of Cups Card in Reverse position could mean that you’re feeling an immense sense of regret. You’re probably thinking about the glory days and how your failed business venture could have thrived back then, or about not being able to take your dream job despite all the years of hard work.
It is tough to maintain a cheery attitude when regret looms, but regret is a result of not moving on. This outcome thus tells you not to think about what could have been, but of how you’ll earn more money later.