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As a sign, Cancer represents the extremes of passion and emotion. They represent the social glue that helps connect every single human being on earth. And while we’re not able to make connections with everyone we know, we at least have the desire for it.

Being a Cancer Man, you have the drive to care for other people. You don’t just treat people as playthings: they are genuine human beings whose needs are just as important as yours. 

However, you can sometimes be a little too kind to your friends and family, leaving potential points of conflict and later worry.

Element and Modality

The Cancer Man’s governing element is Water. Water in astrology is something one cannot possibly forestall or hinder. However, it is something that one could harness either to destroy or to create and bring about happiness to the world. 

In a way, water is very much similar to emotion, which Cancer Men are famous for. The feelings they have are not usually controllable on their own: joy, rage, sadness, disgust– all of these things can consume us. However, they also represent the very things that sustain the world.

And because Cancer’s modality is Cardinal, they are representatives of emotion itself.

Constellation

Cancer’s symbol is the Crab.  Protective and with a hidden capacity for ferocity, this creature is difficult to intimidate or drive away from their homeland. Their bodies gain protection from an inner shell. Their defenses gain strength further through their pincers. This ensures that they are not afraid of anything.

Accordingly, Cancer Men share the same traits. They do not have the intimidating exterior of a crab. But their defensive capabilities surface gloriously in their desire to protect their friends.  

For this reason, Cancer Men are among the easiest and perhaps the best of friends that one can readily find.

Ruling Planet

The ruling planet of Cancer is the very moon upon which we look underneath the night sky. Being the “planet” closest to ours, it has a direct influence on the way things across our planet move such as the seas and of course, ourselves.

Astrologically, the Moon represents the realm of emotion at its most imperious. Whether we like it or not, humanity is most associated with emotion, and among other human beings, Cancer has a special affinity for it.

Consequently, Cancer Men are more emotionally gifted and able to see emotion in a special way, making them great friends.

Strengths

Qualities: Understanding, creative, sensitive

Despite the many puns one could make about Cancer Men, they’re actually very kind human beings. They aren’t just protective of their own welfare, but that of everyone else’s. If you know a Cancer or are one yourself, you definitely understand people across multiple levels.

Naturally, this translates to you being more understanding of other people’s flaws. You’re not the sort of person who likes to look at the negative side of things. And as such, you are willing to overlook minor lapses that could otherwise set other people off. This understanding endears you to many in return.

This emotional affinity for other people naturally results in you being highly creative. You see the human condition in a different way. Thus, you are able to express your emotion through creative means such as the written or spoken words, or even the visual arts! This makes you a primary asset in the humanities.

Aside from this, you are also highly sensitive to people. You do not just ignore people who might suffer behind you. Instead, you preempt their misery and give them the care they deserve before they can even ask. This natural kindness allows you to earn truly loyal friends.

Weaknesses

Qualities: Too much selflessness, self-deception

Cancer Men are caring, but sometimes, this too can be a weakness in its own right. For starters, their naturally caring attitude forces them to think about how everyone perceives them. They can also obsess about the way they act or dress.

This naturally forces them to try and adapt to other people’s perceptions instead of actually trying to be themselves. This is most dangerous because it means that you could potentially remove your own individual identity in favor of public perception. Should you give in to your weaknesses, you might never find joy in yourself.

Additionally, Cancer Men tend to give themselves to other people too much that they barely have enough time for their own problems. As a result, while they may improve the lives of other people around them, your very own career, social or romantic life could be in jeopardy.

Lastly, you also have a propensity for self-deception. You tend to not believe what you see at first because your image of a friend lurks ever presently within your mind. As a result, even when someone’s already betraying you outright, you likely will give them a lot of chances, leading to a toxic arrangement between you.

The Cancer Zodiac Man in Sex

Qualities: Romantic, passionate, a bit insecure

When it comes to sex and intimacy, Cancer Men can be surprisingly surgical and detailed in their approach. They don’t just see sex as a process in itself: it’s part of a long, romantic ritual that truly makes the relationship a special, emotional, and erotic one.

For example, before taking your partner to bed, you’ll likely plan an amazing date first complete with roses, fine dining– anything necessary to help build emotional rapport. This can make you seem almost dreamlike to your partner, and the way you show your affection truly underscores how passionate you can be in a romance.

Of course, the elegance of your preparation ranks behind only by how carnal you can be for the sake of your lover. You’re the kind who actively adapts to your partner’s needs, and you might often ask for advice or feedback about how you perform each time you do it. Some might tell you to surprise them yourself, while others might be more specific. 

Another upside that Cancer Men have lies in their desire for commitment. Anyone who partners up with you will have a wonderful and fruitful relationship. The sexual aspect alone is something you can integrate into the romance. In other words, the sex becomes all the better because you love one another.   

However, sometimes this can also be a bit of a downside for the Cancer Man, because you often feel the need to be careful. Ironically enough, your desire to give your partner a good time could be the sole reason why you have performance anxiety at times. This anxiety can make the sex lackluster, especially during the initial stages of the relationship.

Luckily, this problem doesn’t last long because Cancers are great at learning as they go, so have a little more confidence in yourself!

The Cancer Zodiac Man in Home and Family

Qualities: Doting, introverted, affectionate

The Cancer Man in astrology is someone who prefers to think of his home as his own fortress. Like a crab, you often see your home as a protective place from all the bustle and hustle of the outside world. And accordingly, you will see yourself relax without a second thought from the comforts of your own bed.

However, even with this, your habits tend to vary depending on your own rank within the family. If you’re the son or the elder brother, you’re likely going to not join your family for breakfast or dinner. Instead, you’re going to stay and do as you please from within your own room. 

You’re the type who absolutely values privacy, and you will likely call out any family member that violates this. This habit can be especially prominent when you’re stressed and need a place to vent. Once you are in your room stewing in anger, no one will want to be in your immediate vicinity lest they be pinched like the crab you are.

As a parent, however, you distance yourself from these particular habits. Ultimately, despite your own preference for some alone time, you find it crucial to care for your family and especially your kids. As a result, you’re likely going to dote on them and regularly cuddle them while they’re still young.

In fact, you’ll often find them doing the chores themselves when it comes to those they love. As a Cancer Man, you’ll often cook for your wife, iron the family’s clothes, do the laundry, and more. 

The fact that you’re willing to go all this way means that anyone would be lucky to have you as a life-partner. With your parental sense and genuine love, you are truly a family man in a class of your own.

The Cancer Zodiac Man in Career Paths

Possible Paths: Social work, entrepreneurship

Cancer Men tend to use their emotions more than logic at certain times. Now, this isn’t necessarily a bad thing, because it means that they are able to see and perceive things in a creative sense. This makes them good artists or liberal arts professors who can actually look at the world and examine it from the view of the humanities. 

Aside from the humanities, their empathetic nature also makes them suitable for medical school. With their emotional drive to help other people, it’s easy to see why they would thrive in jobs like being a doctor or an orderly. Aside from their emotional drive, they also have a curious mind, which will allow them to actually function in research.

Additionally, since volunteer work requires plenty of social skills, the Cancer Man will feel at home in another way. Social work helps increase political and philosophical awareness about your community. It also addresses its weaknesses. Without social workers, it becomes very difficult to make straight goals for the community.

Another avenue that Cancer Men can explore is entrepreneurship. They have knowledge of the outside world as well as their inquisitive nature. As such, they’ll find the field to be quite challenging. They’ll need to adapt to the rigors of the market while still maintaining a sizable social and business network.

If none of these are in your speed as a Cancer Man, that’s perfectly fine too. You can work at home and explore online jobs, or even try your hand at managing your family’s company. It will be difficult initially. However, your emotional zeal will carry you through any challenge, no matter how tough or great the expectations are.

In general, a Cancer Man has a lot of jobs to explore because they have a highly dynamic personality. Be sure to try out as many things as possible and stick to your preferred job!

The Cancer Zodiac Man in the Workplace

Workplace Habits: Hardworking, empathetic, selfless

When working, the Cancer Man is very industrious. They often do twice or even thrice the work of most people, and they often do so not so much because of ambition, but because they genuinely care about other people.

There are times when they genuinely miss out on all the fun as a result. Barely concerning themselves with office politics, they are the grinders who will try and overlook just about any fault their teammates might have for the sole purpose of making sure that unity is maintained.

Nonetheless, even with this stoic approach to work, they are still able to maintain some degree of camaraderie, which is fueled in huge part by their sociability. As long as there are people to bond with, they are going to thrive and find something to do, even when it gets too busy. Their cheerfulness and optimism will inevitably add gravitas to any team.

Now, this doesn’t mean there are no disadvantages to this. For one, Cancer Men are actually at constant risk due to the way they conduct and handle situations. They are often the most tired, and sometimes the sign that others take advantage the most at work. 

Another disadvantage is that you almost naturally tend to place the needs of others above your own– their problems become yours. This can stifle your own growth as an individual and even cost precious years or money that you could be spending advancing your own career.

Their hospitality and industry can lure them into situations where they become essentially slaves, and as a Gemini Man, you cannot allow this to happen because it will ultimately only affect your physical and mental health. At work, you are an asset, but you should always remember that work — and your colleagues– aren’t all that matter.

5 Tips to Become the Best Cancer Zodiac Man

#1: Think of your own needs more

Cancer Men are full of empathy and selflessness. On the one hand, this makes them a great friend to anyone lucky enough to stand beside them. You’re someone people count on, and true to your nature, you will always come around and help.

However, this can also make you ignore your own needs. In situations like this, it’s important to note that your needs ultimately matter more than most people. Think of what would happen if you ended up ignoring your health and wellbeing.

There must be a balance between yourself and other people. As such, don’t over prioritize your friends.

#2: Draw firm boundaries

Unfortunate as this may be, there are times when Cancer Men are unable to establish personal or even professional boundaries between friends and colleagues alike. 

While it’s nice to know that you’re always available, sometimes this can lead people to take advantage of the kindness and convenience you provide.

Thus, you should draw firm boundaries between your personal and professional lives to make sure that you are able to make the most of your life and time. 

Don’t let other people take away your ability to take care of yourself, nor should you allow yourself to be taken for granted.

#3: Be more careful around people

One problem Cancer Men have is that they can be too trusting of other people. Although it’s good to give others the benefit of the doubt, it is still rational to make sure that doing so won’t end up biting you back.

As such, you should get to know your friends and colleagues first before you throw around secrets or share aspects of yourself. Use your emotional perception to find out more about your surroundings, and then find your true friends.

Should you do this without flaw, you’re guaranteed to be surrounded by people who genuinely care about your wellbeing.

#4: Embrace honesty

A Cancer Man can be emotionally perceptive. This allows you to read other people’s feelings and thoughts with more clarity compared to the other signs. Normally, you often use these abilities to display your empathy and willingness to help your friends.

However, sometimes, you may use this to manipulate people into doing your own bidding for some reason or another. Whatever the reason may be, it usually only leads to an unjust and even tragic end.

As such, you should always make sure that you are being honest with the people you are talking to, no matter how tempting lying can be.

#5: Use reason and emotion equally

Striking the balance between reason and emotion is often the hardest thing a Cancer Man can do. This is because you are naturally attuned to emotion and will often reserve logic as a life skill to simply solve problems that ultimately don’t concern you.

As it turns out though, logic can also be just as useful in personal affairs, and even in creativity! After all, it’s usually logic that allows you to articulate your thoughts by means of language.

Thus, using both your emotion and your logical capacity doesn’t harm. In fact, it can only really bring better things into your life. 

Healing Crystals for the Cancer Zodiac Man

#1: Moonstone

The Moonstone is one of the best healing crystals a Cancer Man can hope to possess. This is because it’s ultimately a calming agent that actually amplifies your empathy at the same time.

This makes the crystal highly effective in tense scenarios. Stressful situations like outright yelling can allow this crystal to calm you down and appreciate the reasoning behind your counterpart.

In a way, it’s a crystal that doesn’t just exhibit empathy, it’s also a healing agent that effectively helps you defuse any tense situations. Consider using this in moments of great distress.

#2: Red Jasper

The Red Jasper crystal represents the primary concern of a Cancer Man: clarity of mind. Cancer Men are often known for being unable to hone in on their inner balance, resulting in somewhat poor decision-making at times.

With this crystal in hand, you effectively avoid this problem. This is because the Red Jasper is a crystal that ultimately helps address anxiety by refocusing your passions towards more concrete goals.

In other words, this crystal provides a sense of direction and enhances your focus, making you better at work or in simple decision-making. Use this crystal when you are confronted with dilemmas.

#3: Selenite

Selenites are powerful healing crystals that are usually used to help negate negative vibes by absorbing them into the crystal’s very essence. As such, it is best used for actually making sure that Cancer Men keep their cool in the face of so much negativity.

However, it’s also a crystal that can help you in more neutral situations. Since the Selenite’s goal is to remove traces of negative energy, when used in a normal environment, it only helps elevate your happiness and keep you in a really good mood.

With its infinite values and utility, Selenite should find its rightful place at your home.

Final Word

Cancer is a beautiful sign in astrology that shows the power and depth of social interaction. This makes Cancer Men, in turn, highly attractive in a social sense.

However, your overwhelming kindness can sometimes give people the wrong idea. Ultimately, this makes it your duty to maintain balance between firmness and love.